“Whilst it is important for us to stay focused on our goals and achieving what we set out to achieve, it is equally important to make time in our lives for the people who care for us”—JayKay jaykaystateofmind.tumblr.com
“Letting go is not just setting the other person free, but is also setting yourself free from all the bitterness, hatred, and anger that you keep in your heart. Do not let the bitterness take away your strength and weaken your faith, and never allow pain to dishearten you; but rather let yourself grow with wisdom in bearing it. You may find peace in loving someone from a distance not expecting something in return. But be careful, for this can sustain life but can never give enough room for us to grow. We can all survive with just beautiful memories of the past, but real peace and happiness come only with open acceptance of what reality is today. You don’t have to forget someone you love. What you need to learn is how to accept the verdict of reality without being bitter or sorry for yourself. Believe me, you would be better off giving that dedication and love to someone more deserving. Don’t let your heart run your life, be sensible and let your mind speak for itself. Listen not only to your feelings but to reason as well. Always remember that if you lose someone today, it means that someone better is coming tomorrow. If you lose love that doesn’t mean you failed in love. Cry if you have to, but make sure that tears wash away the hurt and the bitterness that the past has left with you. Let go of yesterday and love will find its way back to you. And when it does, pray that it may be the love that will stay and last a lifetime. There are two ways to live your life: One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle. There is no mistake so painful that love cannot forgive. No past so bitter that love cannot accept. And no love so little that we cannot start all over with.”—Albert Einstein (via gangstarxx)
now cupid’s aiming his arrow right there at me no more nonchalance can I be, with you here staring at me with the most beautiful eyes that a niggalady ever see you pull an emotional vibe from my soul, look at me you got my heart beating like my back is filled with batteries
“Learning to love takes energy on many levels. We need all of our chakras functioning in order to create and maintain it.
We must be able to feel, we must be able to communicate, we must be able to have our own autonomy and power, and we need to be able to see and understand. most important, we need to be able to relax and let it happen. The heart chakra is yin, and sometimes the most profound love is that which can simply let things be the way they are.
Love is the expansion and equilibrium of air, the dawn of the east, the gentleness of the dove, the spirit of peace. it is the field that envelopes us.
Through it we find our center, our core, our power, and our reason for living.”—Anodea Judith, Wheels of Life (via elige)
“You can seek the advice of others. Surround yourself with trusted advisers. But in the end, the decision is always yours. And yours alone. And when it’s time to act and you’re all alone, with your back agains the wall, the only voice that matters is the one in your head. The one telling you what you probably already knew. The one that’s almost always right.”—Grey’s Anatomy (via magicsinthemusic)
“No relationship is perfect, ever. There are always some ways you have to bend, to compromise, to give something up in order to gain something greater. The love we have for each other is bigger than these small differences. And that’s the key. It’s like a big pie chart, and the love in a relationship has to be the biggest piece. Love can make up for a lot.”—Sarah Dessen (via eletheowl)
“Don’t settle because you’re afraid you won’t find something better. Don’t compromise because you don’t want to be alone. Give your perfect life, lover and job time and space to grow into our life. Don’t rush, don’t hurry. Take your time, be easy, have patience. Allow everything to come to you with your subtle guiding and intending. Your days of constant chasing with little reward are over. Everything you’ve ever wanted and more coming to you, you just have to let it in with love, receptivity and non-judgment. Letting it in is how you become it.”—Jackson Kiddard (via towonderland)
congratulations on your big day! you looked so breathtakingly beautiful.
i distinctly remember talking about your dreams and aspirations back in the days, talking about it during recess and lunch and even passing notes during class and now i can’t believe that your big day has come. in some ways, i wish i was able to be a part of this special day but i’m beyond happy for you.. and as cliche as it sounds, i wish you both a lifetime of happiness as you start this new chapter of your lives together.
throughout these last few years, i hoped in my heart that we were able to work things out. i guess i tried, though it wasn’t reciprocated in return. i’m not bitter anymore, this was how things were suppose to be, i guess.
but nontheless, wishing you and P all the very best! i know this day is a dream come true for you :)
“Sometimes we have thoughts that even we don’t understand. Thoughts that aren’t even true—that aren’t really how we feel—but they’re running through our heads anyway because they’re interesting to think about. If you could hear other people’s thoughts, you’d overhear things that are true as well as things that are completely random. And you wouldn’t know one from the other. It’d drive you insane. What’s true? What’s not? A million ideas, but what do they mean?”—Jay Asher (via -killerqueen)